Hi! As you have maybe guessed, I haven't written in a while because I've been so busy with the wedding. There were many times when I thought to write something after my last post on marriage but I didn't because I hadn't time or I couldn't think of anything. So here I am!
I wanted to share our wedding with everyone! I couldn't tell you much past what happened and how I felt because we are in a very transitional time right now. I do plan to write a little more in the future about how it feels to be married now but at the moment, I couldn't really tell you! Everything is so new and I'd like to take some time to gain perspective before I express thoughts.
Anywho, the wedding was really perfect. I mean, I don't think we could have asked for anything better. Sean and I spent the days leading up the wedding with our own families. We said goodbye on Thursday morning and although we texted and talked on the phone a couple times, we never saw each other again until I was walking down the aisle!
The wedding was
very DIY. The theme was rustic/fall/vintage and pretty much everything was either handmade or borrowed. My grandma made all the food herself and everyone in my family took turns to put things together. My brother, sister, and I put up all the decorations, the lights, tables and chairs, centerpieces, everything. I was so happy to do it because it made it feel extra special and it was fun to see the space change as the weekend progressed.
Anyway, see for yourself! Here some photos of our big day!
The wedding took place at my grandparents' home on Truman Lake. They have a big yard on the side of the house that we took advantage of. The house sits on a hill that overlooks the lake in the back. It's very pretty and was a great view to have through the trees.
Everyone sat at tables instead of rows of chairs, which I am really happy we decided to do as it worked out perfectly. We created an aisle with vine branches my grandpa found and pumpkins.
A lot of the altar decorations were borrowed, although my grandpas made the altar itself out of trees from the forest behind the house. The lace drapes actually were curtains that my mom found on sale at Target, which ended up being much cheaper than buying fabric from JoAnns. It turns out that they were much easier to put as well since they were already sewn and ready to go.
Here are the centerpieces. Looking at them now, I think we could have done something else but I really don't think it matters. The tables looked great and most of the night was spent in the dark so would've been silly to make them more elaborate anyway.
My grandpa cut the wood slabs to make centerpieces and coasters for the table. We even bought a wood-burner and carved our initials and the date into some of them!
I made our guest book myself. I wanted something that could double as a photo album and a guest book so I had our engagement photos printed and put them in for people to look at and sign around.
My grandma made all of this food by herself. We had pork stew as our main dish and because Sean is a vegetarian, she made him Black Bean and Squash Stew. Needless to say, that stew went real quick. I was happy that Sean was able to get at least one bowl since it went so fast!
Our friend's plate. He was very excited about the caramel apple bar, as you can see.
(!!!) If you're in need of a large amount of mason jar glasses for your wedding, definitely check
here. It was about $65 for 75 glasses and they worked perfectly. What we did so people didn't lose their glass is we just took pieces of kraft paper and tied them with twine to the glass. We left out a marker for people to write their names and voila!
Lastly, I was so happy with how the lights turned out. The atmosphere they created, along with candles and the music, just made the night feel like a dream. There were so many moments throughout the night that I just found myself so happy with where I was and what I was seeing and hearing and who I was with and talking to.
The night was so beautiful and I am so grateful for everyone who helped make it possible. I remember thinking in the days and moments leading up to the wedding, "I can't imagine how this is going to turn out to be the best day of my life." I stressed about it and hoped it would be everything I envisioned and hoped. But it turned out to be that and so much more. The entire experience was beautiful, fun, relaxing, and all-around wonderful. I can honestly say it was the best day of my life.
I have a lot of pictures so I wanted to break these wedding posts up into parts.
Check back tomorrow for more!